What kind of relationship do you want?
I can work with couples of all types to improve their relationship and with individuals to examine how they are with others. Find out what an appointment with me is like and set one up. Or you can get started by reading.
I have developed a 2 1/2 hour video course that helps people get on the Road to Reconciliation. You can watch it as many times as you need.
Part 1 is free, so you can see what it’s like. The cost of the entire course is $25.
Informative, down to earth and practical. Constructive Conflict: Building Something Good Out of All Those Arguments is a must read for anyone who wants concrete, explicit ways to improve their communication and conflict resolution skills.
The Road to Reconciliation: A Comprehensive Guide to Peace When Relationships Go Bad describes a path towards healing and potential forgiveness for anyone in a relationship affected by selfishness, violence, abuse, addiction, or betrayal. It guides the reader on how to assess the damage done and recognize codependency and vindictiveness in themselves, blocking the way from injury to peace. It gives pragmatic advice on how to find safety, assert needs, apologize, make amends, and promote change.
How to Make an Apology You’ll Never Have to Make Again is a step-by-step workbook that will enable you to make an effective apology and transform yourself into the person you would like to be.
Here are a few of the many articles I’ve written on Relationships and Codependency that have not appeared in my books
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